Rima Sarkar’s blog actually made me wonder about the strange relationship between the XX and XY chromosomes. Does a strong relationship like friendship fall weak before ‘love’ or infatuation for that matter?
         Mutual attraction is so common among teenagers (believe me I have gone through it many times), sometimes it is actually easy to choose but other times it’s a decision of a lifetime. Who wants to let go a best buddy? But the bitter truth is the buddy has to go either ways, whether u accept the proposal or not.
            This is a tough decision to make. I don’t know if my stars went crazy in the year 2005,but I faced 3 such situations that year, and I never knew when to draw the line, but my bitter past came as a rescue – my friends knew it that I was not ready for a relationship then. I had gone through several sleepless nights and days of self-discussions but the final decision was always difficult to make.     
           A dialogue from Fanaah has always been my favourite - “Its easy to choose between the Good and the Bad but to choose the best among the two Good options or better among the two Bad ones is the true test of humanity”; and I guess this holds true for many situations we face in our lives.

                 I personally feel its sometimes okay to give things a chance, to give love a chance, even if for a moment!

I know what’s holding back Rima.

1. She has seen her friends going through a lot of things, all in the name of love.
2. As she mentioned in the blog, she never felt she “wanted” Yash.

I’ll give my personal opinion on both of these:

1. If u look a lil’ deeper into your friends hearts, u’ll notice that with ever bitter phase they have gained something. Ask them and they’ll say that the feeling of love surpasses everything in the world. It’s not the mistakes u regret but the moments u cherish that counts. Love makes u fell complete (I m not talking about the dewangee types plzzzz…)
2. Secondly, in love you never “want”, coz when love becomes want its not love. In love you are just happy with the fact that there is someone who cares for u and u are the world for someone.

DON’T JUDGE love (or the person u love) but feel its warmth. Where there is love there is no place for judgments, regrets,expectations or ego.

If you think that he is one who can make you happy or if he is worth a special place in your life- Don’t Hold yourself ! Go For It ! and believe me u will cherish those moments forever.